Luck: success or failure apparently brought by chance rather than through one’s own actions. Â (Thank you Wikipedia)
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In the few weeks that I’ve been in China, I’ve had lots of luck … some good and some (what many would call) “bad” luck. I could make quite an extensive list about the seemingly not so great luck I’ve had here in China with the latest piece relating to the upcoming October vacation. Two days ago I booked a trip to Boracay, Philippines thinking hey, this will be a great week long adventure. Well … my passport/visa/paperwork stuff will not make it back into my paws until three days after my flight leaves. Dang. When I found this out … I had a mini-meltdown consisting of an abundance of frustration and lack of appreciation for those who helped me with this visa/passport process and I’d like to say I’m sorry for that.Â
I guess you could say I had a western moment. Us westerners, we have a tendency to expect things to be ready by yesterday and if something’s late, well someone else is going to do something about our “bad luck” and fix the problem. I’m a pretty laid back person, but there are times when I’m in a rush or want something quickly so I can follow through with my plans. The whole process of applying to work in China for a year gave me a taste of what was to come and how I should deal with things here. When I found out I wouldn’t be moving to Shenzhen until about a week later than I was supposed to, I decided then that I would roll with the punches and let things happen; there’s no point in worrying about something I cannot control. So, with that being said, I’ know that I can control my flight to Boracay (I can re-book my flight) and I can also control my perceptions of this situation. Â The processing of my paperwork, however, is out of my control and therefore is something I’m choosing not to worry about.
I actually wouldn’t even classify this situation as “bad luck” because frankly, that kind of attitude could eventually put a damper on things and I’d rather avoid it. Instead, this wrinkle is an opportunity for me to explore my city before relaxing on a beach. Take that luck.
This past week has been filled with LOTS of school work, planning, organising, and so on. I’m still trying to wrap my mind around this whole teaching ESL thing, but I’m hoping it will come eventually. There are many resources, strategies, and programs to use, which can be quite overwhelming. Despite all of this, I’m truly enjoying my job and working with the kids that I do; they’re the perfect challenge for me during my first year of teaching. Not to mention, the A-Ha moments and successes I can share with students.Â
This weekend was filled with new experiences ranging from a teacher appreciation dinner, a trip to KTV (where you rent a room to sing karaoke), and a walk to Shekou to have some breakfast. Needless to say, it’s easy for me to sometimes focus on the “bad luck” and leave the “good luck” trailing behind. Sooo … I’d like to show you all what makes me so so so lucky in China … we could call it my “China luck.”Â
I’ve been lucky enough to get to know some pretty great people in the short time I’ve been here. I’ve been lucky enough to interact with people who take the time to show you around, give you suggestions, and make you feel at home. I’ve been lucky enough to make connections with people and feel like I’ve known them for much longer than a few weeks. I’ve been lucky enough that they really like to cook, and I like to supply food and clean up. I’ve been lucky enough to have movie nights and late night chats. I’ve been lucky enough to feel supported, encouraged, accepted, and appreciated. I’ve been lucky.
I’m ready for the “bad luck” … in part because I’ve decided to let things go and also because any “bad luck” I have will most definitely be trumped by my good luck here in China … i.e. all of the things I’ve experienced and the people I have met and will meet on my journey.Â
I’ll leave you all with a little something that I saw on my Sunday walk. I think we could all use a little of this …Â
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Lots of love from Shenzhen! xoÂ
Kat